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If you want to date a stripper you should know from the beginning that you have your work cut out for you. Of course, the payoff is that you will be living every man’s dream once you are successful in getting a stripper to agree to date you! There can be nothing quite like dating a woman that is skilled at seducing a man and knows what men want.

The problem is that most strippers don’t date customers. If you have tried asking a stripper out you will have probably been told this at least once. It doesn’t matter how nice you are or how cool you might come off, most strippers simply don’t date men that they met at work.

So how can you seduce a stripper and make yourself irresistible to her? How can you seduce someone that is in the business of seduction? She has probably heard every line imaginable and gets hit on every day at work in ways that most women simply couldn’t handle. I doubt they have a bouncer in your office to deal with harassment, do they?

What she will probably find most seductive about you is that you are real, genuine and not some stalker psychopath. You aren’t a stalker or a psychopath, are you? Typically, they visit strip clubs on a daily basis and they hold absolutely not chance of dating her or seducing her into a relationship.

Be Yourself – As tempting as it might be to try to impress her with how much money you have or what kind of car you drive, if you are really looking to seduce a stripper you aren’t going to do it with money or material possessions. You might make yourself a sugar daddy for a short while if she is that type of girl but is that what you really want?

She gets hit on all day by guys offering her vacations and trying to impress her. Why not try being different. Open up to her a little bit and spend more time talking and less time ogling. Look her in the eye when you talk to her. Ask her how her day was or how her week has been. Show an interest in her and try to create a connection with her.

It’s A Job – Show her that you understand that stripping is just a job. Although it can be kind of fun and very profitable it is still a job and a tough one sometimes. Strippers are very athletic and it takes a lot of skill to dance like she does. Being a stripper also requires a lot of interpersonal skills to be able to make a good living. Ask her if she’s working on any new routines or what she finds the most difficult about her work day.

If she tells you that the most difficult part of dancing is creepy guys or drunk guys tell her that you meant about her dancing. Tell her that you figured that it would be tough to keep guys from grabbing her but that you knew that technically dancing was difficult since you have a hard time doing a simple box step.

Follow this advice and you will see that there really is a lot to seducing a stripper. Dating a stripper could be one of the most memorable relationships that you will ever have and exotic dancers are some of the most interesting women you might ever date. Of course, this doesn’t take into account all the fringe benefits that go along with dating a stripper but there is no doubt that you have already thought of those, haven’t you?

Is there a stripper that you want to date or have you thought of dating a stripper? After all, strippers are typically very attractive, often intelligent and there is no doubt that a stripper knows what a man wants and needs. What more could you look for in a girlfriend? But before you trot off to your local strip club to begin working your magic and thinking that this is going to be a piece of cake ask yourself if you have what it takes to date a stripper.

Are you blind to the fact that strippers take their clothes off for a living and are in the business of seducing other men? It takes a strong man to deal with the fact that his girlfriend is going to be naked or near naked in front of probably hundreds of men in a given week. But once you realize that this is only a job and something that she does for a living it can be easy to deal with. After all, who is it that she goes home to every night or sees outside of work? And lets not even get started with what she will do with you, her boyfriend, that she doesn’t do with customers at work.

Would you expect her to quit her job if you began dating seriously? Once again, this is just a job for her. There is more to being a stripper than just taking your clothes off. Most strippers are very athletic and they take great pride in how they can dance. Just try hanging upside down from a stripper pole sometime from one leg or make your body move in the way that she does and you will have a whole new appreciation for what a stripper does. You don’t have to like what she does for a living but if you ever hope to date a stripper you will need to respect her for being able to support herself and the skills that she has both physically and socially that enable her to make a living as a stripper.

Will you be able to be a good sounding board for her when she comes home from work? Can you be secure and open enough to allow her to unload after a long night at work and hear about some creep that grabbed her that she had to have a bouncer remove from the building? You might be tempted to want to know who he is and want to break his face but that is not what she is looking for. That is what the bouncers are there for. Everyone has a bad day at work from time to time and if you are dating a stripper she needs to feel secure enough with you to be able to talk with you about her bad days at work no different than you need her to listen to you after a bad day at work.

Finally, are you skilled enough at seduction and passionate enough to be able to handle dating a stripper? Do you have the knowledge and skill to be able to get her to see that you’re serious about dating her to get her to forget about the rule that strippers don’t date customers? And once you get her to agree to go out on a date with her are you passionate enough and skilled enough at seduction that you can seduce a woman that makes her living at seduction? It may be a lot to overcome but the reward is beyond your wildest imagination. You will be dating one of the most sensual and passionate women on the face of the planet. The only question is whether you can handle actually dating a stripper.

Do you want to date a stripper? Have you found a hot stripper that you just find completely irresistible? Maybe you have even asked her out and have been told that she has a boyfriend or that she doesn’t date customers. The truth is that strippers may not date customers but they did date guys that they meet in the club. But how do you go from being a customer like every other guy in the club to being her boyfriend?

These are the stages that you will go through or the hoops that you will probably have to jump through if you really want to date a stripper. Typically, a stripper won’t just agree to date you. She will want to make sure that you are serious and willing to put in the time and effort to get a real date with her. If she does jump at going out on a date with you there is a very good chance that she is just looking for someone to take her out to dinner or a Sugar Daddy so beware.

Customer – A customer is just like any other guy that comes into the club. You might be one of her regular customers and she might even like you or find you handsome but typically a stripper won’t date just any customer. Why? Because people in general can be unstable and a lot of creeps and weirdos hang out in strip clubs and ask strippers out on dates. Next time you’re in the club just look around and ask yourself if you would want your daughter or your sister dating any of the guys around you.

Friend – If you have spent some time as a regular customer of hers you will begin to build a rapport with her. This is a necessary step towards dating a stripper. You might joke around when you are together or even talk about life in general. In short, you are getting to know each other.

How do you know when you’re her friend? When she begins to share pieces of her life with you and details about herself and her day you can be reasonably sure that you are on the right track. Knowing her real name is important but many strippers don’t share their real name with guys until they are good and sure that they are a solid guy. How do you get her to share with you can let you in? Ask her questions! And not questions about her cup size or her work. Show an interest in her!

Boyfriend – If you have started to notice that the stripper that you are interested in is particularly happy to see you each time you go to the club or that the other girls look at you a little bit differently you can be sure that she is thinking about you and talking about you with her friends. If she begins spending time with you sitting beside you just talking then your opportunity to ask her out again is approaching. Have fun with this and seduce her a little bit…yes, strippers can be and like seduction just as much as you do. She may be better at it than you but it can often be a nice change of pace for her to have a guy genuinely flirt with her and make her feel special in a non-creepy way.

In short, it may take some time to get a stripper to agree to go out on a date with you but the rewards are everything that you could imagine. Your girlfriend, after all, will be a woman that is skilled and knowledgeable in exactly what turns a guy on and how to do that. Put in your time and set yourself apart from all the other guys that are begging to go out with her and before long you will be dating a stripper.

Are you crazy about a stripper or want to date a stripper? Are you trying to date a stripper but you just aren’t sure what to do or how to go about asking her out? How do you know when she is into you or when she is just being polite or playing you like every other customer?

Her Name – Somewhere along the line you should ask her what her real name is. Most strippers go by a stage name to appear more enticing to guys and also to hide their identity. Knowing a woman’s first name is halfway to knowing her entire name and she doesn’t want any stalkers knowing even half of her name.

Chances are she won’t give you her real name until she does feel at least a little comfortable with you. This by no means is an indication that she is crazy in love with you or that she wants to date you but it does show a degree of trust. So if a stripper does tell you her real name you are on the right track but you aren’t quite there yet. You still have a ways to go before she will agree to go out on a date with you.

Down Time – There are often lulls in the action at most strip clubs. It might be early in her shift or just before closing or just a natural lull in the action at the club. Does she come over and sit down next to you to talk or watch one of the other dancers dance?

Spending time talking with you while not sitting on your lap is a good indication that she feels comfortable with you and is a good indication that a stripper does consider you something maybe a little bit more than just a customer. You might still be a customer or a very good customer but time spent talking while she is not taking money from you is always a good sign. You have done something to make her feel that you aren’t a creep and are at least enjoyable to talk with. One point for you.

Of course, nothing is absolute and these are just a couple of tips that could prove that you are on the right track to dating the stripper of your dreams… a woman probably hotter than any woman you have ever dated who also knows a lot about what turns a guy on and how to accomplish this task with great expertise.

Just remember that strippers are just women who have a very different kind of job. They have the same need for social interaction outside of work and they typically don’t date customers. Of course they do date guys that they meet at the club! You could be one of those guys and live the life that many guys only dream of by dating a stripper.

Do you want to date a hot stripper or is there a particular stripper that you have being wanting to date? Have you been shot down time and time again being told that either she doesn’t date customers or that she already has a boyfriend?

It very well might be true that she does have a boyfriend or it could be something that she says just to end the persistent requests for dates that she gets on a daily basis. If she is a very beautiful woman or a stripper that is very talented in what she does, which is seducing men, then this very well might be a little white lie. Some strippers even go so far as to wear an engagement ring on their left hand and some even have guy friends that they can point to and declare as their boyfriend to keep customers on an even keel and from thinking that they have a chance of getting a date outside of the club.

If the stripper that you want to date does have a boyfriend then you should also not be too worried about it. Just like any other woman that you might meet, you can always wait and see how the relationship plays out. They might break up or if they have been dating for only a short period of time there is a good chance that he might not be able to handle having a relationship with a girl that works as a stripper. This does happen a lot and there aren’t too many guys that can handle having a girlfriend that takes her clothes off for a living.

So what should you do? Should you just hang it up and move on to the next girl that strikes your fancy or you should you continue in your requests for a date? To get to the truth you should spend some time getting to know her. If you really want to date her you should want to get to know her in general anyhow, right?

Spend some time talking with her. In the beginning you will be no different than any other customer but in time you will create a friendly relationship where you can discuss just about anything under the sun. Bring her out of her shell and show her that you are cool with what she does for a living. After all, it is just a job, right? Everybody is naked under their clothes after all, right?

Become one of her special customers that she looks forward to seeing and talking with. Be the guy that she waits for so she can tell you what’s been going on in her life. Soon you will find that it is you that she is sitting next to when she has some down time and it is you that she comes trotting over to when you enter the club. Be her sounding board and the guy she vents to when she is having a bad day.

Before you know it she will either begin to talk about her relationship with her boyfriend or admit to you that she doesn’t have a boyfriend. It is that simple. And at this point you can either move on to hitting on another girl, while still remaining friends with her, or you can ask her out on a date outside of the club.

Getting a stripper to agree to go out on a date with you can be difficult if you don’t understand the lifestyle that they live but with a little understanding and knowing how to cut through all the garbage you really can date a stripper. After all, the payoff is that you will be dating a woman that is probably very interesting, insanely beautiful and knows exactly what a guy wants and needs. It really doesn’t get much better than dating a stripper.

By Raina Lorring

Have you ever wondered how to date a stripper? A person’s job can influence how to date them and exotic dancing is no exception. In fact such a job can change your dating strategy completely. Someone’s job can help define their personality, which gives you insight on how to approach a romantic relationship with them. Above all though remember, it’s the person you are dating and not their job.

Things you will need to date a stripper:

• A stripper you are interested in
• Creativity
• Good communication skills
• An open mind
• A non-jealous attitude

1. Meet a stripper you wish to date. Exotic dancing is just a job and because of this you can meet strippers just like you can meet someone of any profession. My suggestion is not to meet a stripper who you wish to date at work. Many do not agree. If you do meet a stripper while they are on the job at a club, do not pay attention to the other dancers. Show your sincerity at the beginning that you want to date them. Step 2 would also be extra hard and might take you longer.
2. Establish that you want to date and not be a client. You should be up front about your intentions. Many strippers prefer not to mix business with pleasure. This on the other hand does depend on the personal preferences of the stripper you wish to date. Communication here is key. Found out early on what their dating rules are.
3. Call them by their real name. Many strippers have stage names. Using there real name will help show you are interested in them and not their job.
4. Get creative. Strippers are used to being taken to nice places, having money thrown at them and expensive gifts. Make your attempts of romance unlike this. Instead of fancy dinners, try making them dinner. Another idea is a nice picnic. Whatever kind of dates you decided, try keeping them low key and keep their interest in mind. Instead of expensive gifts, try ones that show you understand them as a person.
5. Don’t get jealous. Once you’ve started to establish a relationship, don’t undo your hard work by getting jealous. Strippers get a lot of attention and if you wish to date one you need to keep this in mind. If you both agree that it’s okay for you to visit them at work, don’t miss use this opportunity by getting in the way of them doing their job. Also so strippers at very popular clubs will occasionally get recognized. This can be a possibility when you are together.

Many guys dream of dating a stripper. For some it is the challenge of dating a woman that it typically not to be touched for fear of being drip kicked by a bouncer while for others it is a sincere desire to date one particular woman that they find attractive not only physically but for who she is.

If you have decided that you want to date a stripper though you are going to have to overcome a few obstacles and set yourself apart from all the other guys that she sees every night. You need to be unique but I am going to share with you a few tips that can help you to come off as the type of guy that any stripper will want to get to know better.

Hang Out At The Bar – Don’t hang out with all the other guys throwing dollar bills at the girls and getting lap dances from all the other dancers. She dances for a living and if you’re getting lap dances from other girls she isn’t going to feel very special is she?

Instead hang out at the bar or just sit an enjoy the show if there isn’t a bar at the strip club that you go to. Yes, it’s ok to get a lap dance from her but do talk with her. Compliment her on her dancing or ask her how she is doing. Strippers do take their work seriously and it does take great skill to be able to dance.

Look Her In The Eye – Try to overcome the male impulse to look at her body. Smile and look her in the eye as you talk with her. Most strippers will notice if you look them in the eye and this eye to eye contact shows that you do appreciate her as a human being and that you aren’t looking at her as just an object.

Conversation – As much as keen conversation skills are with any woman, it is particularly important that you be good at striking up a conversation with a stripper if you ever hope to date her. Try to avoid topics such as how she got into stripping, if she likes stripping, if she’s working her way through college stripping and stuff like that. These are topics that every guy asks her.

Instead ask her about her life. Ask her where she is from and what she did over the weekend or what she plans on doing this weekend. Ask her if she has any hobbies or what she likes to do for fun. She may be resistant to talking about such things but if you can share a little bit about yourself you might be able to get her to come out of her shell.

Dating a stripper can be a challenging task since these women get hit on all day long. Every guy thinks that he’s in love with them but for most strippers the guys that come to strip clubs are simply not dating material. But if you can separate yourself from the herd you stand a pretty good chance of dating a stripper.

Do you want to date a stripper? Do you know one particular stripper that you want to date or just have a dream of dating a beautiful exotic dancer? Have you tried asking a stripper out on a date only to be told that she doesn’t date customers? The sad fact is that this is a general rule for most strippers and it does take some doing to get a stripper to agree to meet you outside the club. So what should you do? Should you just give up or should you continue to keep on pestering her about a date?

The good news is that strippers may not date customers but they do date guys that they meet at the strip club. Does this mean that you should stop showing her attention or say no every time she comes around offering to dance for you? Absolutely not! These are opportunities to talk with her and to show her that you are different than all the other guys. Most guys will give up pretty quickly after a stripper tells then that they don’t date customers or they’ll move on to another girl… the next sparkly thing that strikes their fancy.

If you are interested in one particular stripper and she has turned you down time and time again when you ask her out on a date you should remain persistent in your requests for a date. As you get to know each other you will become more than just a customer and asking her out each time you see her might wind up becoming kind of cute.

Yes, at first you will be just another customer and her focus will be on business. After a while though, if you play your cards right, you will be someone that she is happy to see on a regular basis and you will notice that she will spend time talking with you when she isn’t busy.

How do you get to that point? How do you get her to be genuinely interested in you? Be yourself. Spend time talking with her about things that interest her. Every stripper is still a woman you know and women do enjoy talking about themselves and what is going on in their life. Give her the opportunity to open up to you and ask questions that relate to her life outside of the club. Avoid topics and questions related to what she does for work. Every guy wants to know why a stripper works as a stripper and how much money they make or if they’re putting themselves through school on their earnings.

Focus on her as a human being. Everyone has good things and bad things that happen in their life and women like to talk about their problems. The might not always be looking for a solution to their problems but they are always looking for someone to talk to. You could be that person that she talks to. You could become her friend leading to her boyfriend and before you know it one of your regular corny requests for a date will be answered with a yes instead of the typical no.